Is Burlesque suitable for everybody?

I’ve been in Burlesque since 2014 and so far I’ve been affirming at any occasion that Burlesque is suitable for women (and men, when it comes to Boylesque) of any age, size and shape. And it is, indeed! For many reasons.

Because we are an inclusive worldwide community, welcoming new members, happy to share our art and our passion.

Because Burlesque is the celebration of beauty and uniqueness, regardless of and far beyond any stereotype and any modern-day canon.

Because we believe, promote and support body positivity.

Because if a beginner doesn’t aim to become a pro, dancing Burlesque can be easier than any other dance discipline, in terms of techniques and routines.

Because starting taking classes doesn’t require any experience whatsoever.

And for some other reasons, that can vary according to point of views and experiences.

For all the above motivations, when I explain what Burlesque is and how my classes are structured, I always explain (and guarantee!) that Burlesque is the self-esteem booster, the magical tool to bring out the diva that lies in you, the way to feel beautiful and sensual at any age. It gives us the opportunity to wear beautiful dresses and use alluring and glamorous props. Don’t we love to become someone else for a Carnival party? An elegant 1800s lady, a sexy witch, a Charleston dancer? Don’t we love to wear make-up and get our hair done? To look amazingly elegant when we attend a wedding?

And I add that it is really for everybody, because it’s easy as it seems. Ok, I’m not talking about becoming a pro, I’m just talking about enjoying taking classes, doing our best without fearing any judgement.

So, to me Burlesque is for everybody for all the reasons listed above but especially - I find it logical!- because all women have a feminine side! Isn’t it true that at least once in our life we have seduced someone? Whether it was the person we had a crush on or just someone we wanted to convince of something, haven’t we used sometimes our charm or our seductive power? Even if it wasn’t for a romantic purpose, don’t we do it when we really want to reach our goal?

So, when a woman tells me that Burlesque is not for her because she is not sensual or seductive, or she is a sporty type and doesn’t feel comfortable being sexy, I believe she should rather say it’s not for her because she doesn’t want to be more often and more naturally sensual and seductive in her everyday life. That’s it.

But, if you decide to dare to show more often your feminine side, well, hold on tight! because Burlesque will be a life-changer. And you will never regret to have given it a go.

You will start an endless love story with yourself, and loving yourself is the best gift you can ask for.